I want to talk about what happens when you meet a person— IRL or URL— what happens when you exchange numbers, and what happens when the text chain runs cold. I want to talk about ghosting. I’ll be honest (because that’s what these letters are for) I started and stopped writing about this topic many, many times because every time I think I’ve got it down and that I know exactly what I want to say— words fail me and another draft gets buried under the pile.